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being less of a man ain't all that bad..

i seldom blog about the things i read on other people's blog. for starters it just shows that ur just too lazy to come up with stuff to write and ur just riding on someone else's topic. hehe but rather than engage in a long winded comment on their blog, might as well you write what u feel on ur own blog. hehe yeah yeah. so what was so interesting that u have to make an exception now acat? 

'lelaki yang tidak bernaluri untuk kahwin lebih dari satu bukan lelaki sejati' 

i think if we take 'kahwin' in the context of sex most men would not think twice to answer yes, only real men would be MAN enough to want to score with a lot of chicks. don juan demarco. cassanova. stud la katakan. 

it's easy to be all wild and screw around and what not. it is. not everyone can do it, there are some restrictions on looks, money and what not but essentially it is easy. u can lower ur standards and pretty much sow ur wild oats to ur hearts desire. but does that really make u a man? 

a man must know his responsibilities and make the right decisions. 

a man must know when to make sacrifices and when to fight for the one he loves. 

so if a man decides to just stick with one does it make him less of a man? 

if that's the case than i'd be the first to admit that yes, i am less of a man.

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