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next on ze lizt..

it was an early start for the day, the senorita had this appointment with this one makcik to sort out some post natal care bits. the little munchkin didn't have any extra classes so i asked my mom if it would be okay for us to leave him at her place in the mean time. my mom had to go back to pahang for a wedding but my sister ana didn't mind babysitting so it was all good.

we had breakfast and made our way to lembah keramat. caught my sister ita with my two nephew nabil and aidil with little farzana just as they are about to head back to puchong.

the makcik's place was way down in selayang. as usual i kinda got the directions messed up and we made an unnecessary detour. but we got there in the end. it rained just as we were finishing up and it poured as we made our way back to pick the little munchkin up.

aanyways back to ze biznes at hand..

19) what did you want to do next?
now after the first date, er can we count that as a first date ke? well i guess. hehe, i was excited. i mean clearly there was a connection right? u don't go a full three hours of chit chatting and talking if u don't find the other party engaging right? well we ended the coffee session with me saying that i'll definitely follow up. she kinda doubted that. i dunno la what made she think that well now i know la. it was something that i said la.

well the gorgeous senorita was being very forthright about her having a little boy. i asked how old he was at the time and she said la the little munchkin was 8 year's old. my stoopid comment was "dah besar, sure susah" the senorita took this as me saying that it would be very difficult to have a relationship with someone when u have a kid. when all i was saying that it would be very difficult for a guy to come in coz i'm sure the boy would be very protective of the mother. we still argue about this every now and then but hehe she's my wife now and very heavily pregnant with my little jj so u'd hazard a guess that it's not that big of an issue. i'm digressing.

anyways, after the coffee session, i had a treasure hunt at maju junction with muz and my brother khalil. i smsed the senorita quite early in the morning but she didn't reply. then afterwards when i was in jusco spending my winnings, i smsed her again to ask her opinion on me buying a shirt - her reply this time was very nonplus at best but i think she did recommend black which i got la. now if i wasn't that smitten, i probably would have read that as she being not that interested in me la.

i called her that sunday but she didn't pick up. when i finally got her, i readily accepted her explanation that "she left her phone upstairs". hehe. i found out later that she was just playing hard to get. maybe this had something to do with the whole thing with wanting to wait for a bit to see the spark that we felt during the first meet up was real and not just some fleeting fancy. i think we were supposed to wait two weeks. or maybe it was just that stoopid comment i made. ah who knows how the female mind works..

i thought it was about the two weeks thingy? no way man. i couldn't wait that long!

hehe. and i didn't have to.

er so did that answer the question? what i wanted to do next was to get to know her more and enjoy more of her company.
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