my mom's ayam masak merah is da bomb. hehe the birthday do was overloaded with cake. hehe. but like i always say, u have to make room for dessert. in this case, u have to make room for cake..
5) does it really matter who's wrong or right?
hehe what kind of question that? entah. its 2 am and i'm watching the rerun of the AF concert, so go figure. btw, the two girl/boy duets were really interesting eh.
growing up, i use to have this strong inclination to always be right. most of the time i am la kan, sheah right. it even came to a point where i would rigorously defend my position. now things are easier, u can google a lot of stuff if ur not sure. back then u pretty much rely on books and ur ability to bullshit. hehe. but i seldom had to apologize because i'm seldom wrong. this kinda led me to always want to win arguments. this was not good la.
it's one thing to always want to win an argument because its ur job, like if ur a lawyer or something, or ur in a debate, the one with 'this house believes" as the opening line. but do we really need to win every argument when it comes to love?
well it may depend on the point of argument i hear u say? its kinda hard to pick and choose because arguments are aplenty. so which one do u choose?
can u choose not to argue? well u can try but that's kinda hard. besides arguments are not always bad. u just don't have to win them all.
where am i going with this? ah yes, couples should try to see every argument from the "us" viewpoint instead of the "me" and "u". take this example, the senorita and i were talking about this bathroom cleaning agent cif. she was telling me how it was supposed to be better than jif. i told her that its the same thing, but she insisted that it was different. now, had i argued with her and did my usual lemme google it u moron bit, i would have easily won the argument and she would probably have to admit that she was wrong. cif and jif are the same. but u'd bet la that somebody might be sleeping on the couch la afterwards eh?
is it really worth it? hehe. i know i know the fact that i'm citing the example here now might get me in some hot water later but hey its only academic. hehe. its trivial yes, but the trivial has this habit of snowballing if ur not careful. if u look at it from the "us" standpoint u'll quickly realise that it's not worth it to even try to win the argument, and just let it slide and move on.
there are things more important to think about.