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there are no Fucking postcards!!

i guess thats what shopkeepers in Fucking, Austria have to say when tourists ask to buy postcards eh..

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break ups are never easy. well i guess it depends on which side ur on la kot. the breaker and the breakee.. the dumper or the dumpee.. but then again there are cases where the dumper becomes all tak senang menyesal regret and there's also cases where the dumpee just can't seem to get their ex out of their minds. there are thousands of reasons for this. sometimes its unique to that situation. other times its those 'been there done that' kinda thing.

i guess we all handle it in our own way la. recently a friend of mine dumped her boyfriend of just over a year. i can't say much for the guy except for the fact that i didn't like him much despite not knowing him all that well la. met him a few times. but that was about it. susah nak explain. kenapa kita tak suka seseorang tu. hehe i guess technically i'm a bit biased la kot. the things i've heard about him pun came from my friend and some mutual acquaintance aje. tak pernah la plak dok hangout with the fella pun. well maybe that was down to me not really being in that crowd la kan. but that's besides the point.

so there i was reading about the break up in her blog. well she didn't actually put it as bluntly as that la which i thought was good la. its easy to start deconstructing and knit pick on why a relationship didn't work out and what not. finger pointing and blaming. all that is really pointless la. anyways she was telling everyone how she'd plan to move on with her life, resolutions and all that jazz la. nothing wrong with that kan. its good what to leave the past behind and start fresh. hehe. well we can always try la to start fresh. i dunno la what's the guy's malfunction when he felt it necessary to start slagging her at her own blog. which most likely the readers are all her friends and the ones yang care for her in the first place. its just sad la to see someone drop to such a level. i mean come on la. she is entitled to her views in her own space. the best thing u can do is to just leave her be. it didn't work out between the two of you. u had fun but now the shows over so u need to get out of the cinema la.

maybe if he felt that she shudn't have written what she wrote and he was just wanting to set the record straight. hehe dude, sign up with blogger and write ur own blog laa. stop wasting her space.

kena take it like a man la. the girl dah tak nak u. hehe i'm sure everyone's been there. heck i've even been there. she doesn't want you. okay yeay sure she loved u before but maybe u fucked up enough that the love just ain't there anymore. hehe sedangkan kalau tak fuck up pun buleh buat orang berubah hati. ni kalau dah intentionally carik pasal.. go figure la. now everyone knows how pathetic his attempts at trying to remain a part of her life is. yeah i guess that's it la kot. maybe one just can't accept that their ex could possibly have a better life without them. that they try and try as much as possible, subtly or obviously to remain in the picture. sometimes u don't even feel anything for them but ur ego is battered. and u just can't swallow it.

reading how everything unfolds, i have to admit that i'm very lucky. a broken heart ain't all that easily mended, but when fate dropped that special glue on ur lap, u don't throw it away la kan. i really hope she finds whatever she's looking for. i'm sure her friends will be there for her heck the last i heard, she's really moving on with her life la. hehe so let la the guy say whatever he wants to say. the best reply u can give him is to show how much better u are now without him. better still just fucking ignore aje.

hehe. serious biased betul eh. hehe
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