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when it comes to good ex behaviour, none can come close to how my ex is. since the break up, i have not heard from her at all. not even once. sure i do get some updates from friends and what not but she has never personally contact me or anything. which is not at all a bad thing. i mean a clean break will make it easier to move on and i guess in a way i'm thankful that i don't have to deal with any remnants of this past relationship.

now there are varying degrees when it comes to 'bad cases of the ex' ni. some just refuse to leave u alone. still calls u up every now and then. merayu-rayu minta second chance (second chance yang ke empat). some just lingers like the smell of ciggarettes in a cinema toilet. u can't see it but u know its there. still wanting to feel a part of ur life. they lurk in the background pretty much being a waste of oxygen aje. bugging anyone remotely associated with u. why? entah? maybe they feel obliged to become losers. sad ones at that.

we can't help but be affected la by our exes. as much as we try to be strong and what not in one way or the other we just can't help but to be affected. but hey we're only human right? i guess we can just concentrate on our own lives and try to be happy as much as we can.
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